The main reason it's so stressful and scary is because we really want to do a good job so we can get a return engagement not to mention a good review. We have to give 110% that first time because we may not ever get a second chance and, we really want that second chance because, that means more sex for us. So, God forbid we blow it, because she not only won't give us anymore lovin', but she could also totally ruin us socially and humiliate us among her female friends, not to mention on Facebook. So really it's like having sex with all her friends at the same time without getting to have sex with all her friends because they are all going to hear all about your strong or lack thereof. So, there is a ton on the line once the panties drop and the action starts. It's like and audition, or the world's most naked job interview.